Despite some opacity based on learned guesswork, Tucker is a consistently energetic guide, and she doesn’t shy away from discussing 'the dangerous and opaque mental problems that hound moms.' In a particularly vibrant chapter, the author explores the countless deleterious effects of poverty and how American society continually fails to provide the support that mothers deserve. Filling in the gaps and moving the story forward are Tucker’s personal observations—she is the mother of four—and the ups and downs of her experiences, many of which will be familiar to mothers of all backgrounds.