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But You’re Still So Young: How Thirtysomethings Are Redefining Adulthood

Bottom of the pile

3

/100

I Index Overall Rating

Readers

2/100

Critics

4/100

Scholars

N/A

Author:

Kayleen Schaefer

Publisher:

Dutton

Date:

March 2, 2021

An investigation into what it means to be in your thirties, and to navigate some of the biggest milestones of adult life, and how it is more okay than ever to not have every box checked off.

What The Reviewers Say

Jordan Kisner,
The New York Times Book Review
In her thoughtful and well-paced evaluation of 'adulthood,' Schaefer explores the struggle today’s ascendant adults face in getting anywhere near these goals 'on time.'.
Laura Chanoux,
Booklist
For Americans currently nearing or already into their thirties, achieving major adult milestones has not been nearly so linear.
Kayleen Schaefer,
Library Journal
Combining memoir and case study, Schaefer examines why so many millennials have delayed, or failed to attain, the hallmarks of American adulthood: completing their education, purchasing a home, marrying, achieving financial independence, and having children.

Kirkus
Schaefer’s breezy survey examines the dilemmas facing Americans in their 30s.