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Maybe someday

45

/100

I Index Overall Rating

Readers

54/100

Critics

37/100

Scholars

N/A

Author:

John Paul Brammer

Publisher:

Simon & Schuster

Date:

June 8, 2021

From popular LGBTQ advice columnist and writer John Paul Brammer comes a memoir-in-essays chronicling his journey growing up as a queer, mixed-race kid in America.

What The Reviewers Say

Matt Wille,
The New York Times Book Review
Brammer’s voice will be familiar to fans of his column. He is both kind and piercingly funny, often in the same sentence. He slips in and out of queer slang without pause; he is just as sure-footed in contemplating the awkwardness of gay sex as he is in describing his family in Oklahoma. Brammer’s tone lends levity to the weighty subjects he extrapolates upon.
Jessica Wakeman,
BookPage
Anyone who has grappled with their own identities will relate to Brammer as he wrestles with insecurities and forges ahead through the haze of depression.
Michael Cart,
Booklist
... readers are likely to become addicted to these stories; they’re that good. Beautifully written, the stories run a gamut of emotions that readers will share. Some are wistful; some, melancholy; others, sad or poignant or bittersweet. The subjects of the stories—Brammer’s quotidian life—are made fascinating with the author’s deeply introspective musing and self-analysis. Brammer comes to know himself very well, and readers will be delighted to make his acquaintance, too..
Rachel Rosenberg,
Library Journal
There is an ease and charm to Brammer’s writing that will make readers feel as though he is sitting beside them, regaling them with his often funny, increasingly insightful, sometimes heartbreaking tales.