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Films of Endearment: A Mother, a Son and the ’80s Films That Defined Us

Maybe someday

31

/100

I Index Overall Rating

Readers

25/100

Critics

37/100

Scholars

N/A

Author:

Michael Koresky

Publisher:

Hanover Square Press

Date:

May 4, 2021

Approaching his 40th birthday, a film critic embarks upon a project with his mother—whom he credits with his love of the medium—to watch influential movies starring women from their shared cinematic past. 1980s films like 9 to 5, Terms of Endearment, The Color Purple and Working Girl are explored alongside childhood memories, including his developing consciousness as a gay man.

What The Reviewers Say

Barbara VanDenburgh,
USA Today
Koresky, a writer accustomed to turning his critical eye outward, professes discomfort at turning it inward to write about himself. That discomfort doesn’t show in Koresky’s tender depiction of a loving mother-son relationship and the passion for film it fostered. Koresky’s film writing is incisive and confidant but always approachable, never so academic that it loses its heart.
Kevin Howell,
Shelf Awareness
... [a] charming and moving mix of memoir and movie appreciation.
Richard Scott Larson,
Slant
Koresky’s complicated relationship with age and mortality inflects much of Films of Endearment, as the absence of his father—who passed away years ago—leads him to reflect on ideas of home and permanence. He enters the decade of his 40s while working on the book, and he discusses his and his husband’s decision not to have children—a newly relevant question in the queer community that he lingers on in illuminating ways.
Terry Bosky,
Library Journal
A skilled film critic, Koresky guides readers through salient plot points instead of rehashing entire films, but his real talent is using cinema as a starting point for conversation. This intimate, probing work will appeal to hard-core cinephiles, lovers of memoirs, and many other readers..