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Everything I Have Is Yours: A Marriage

Bottom of the pile

11

/100

I Index Overall Rating

Readers

4/100

Critics

17/100

Scholars

N/A

Author:

Eleanor Henderson

Publisher:

Flatiron Books

Date:

August 10, 2021

Eleanor met Aaron when she was just a teenager and he was working at a local record store. Escaping the clichâes of fleeting young love, their summer romance bloomed into a relationship that survived college and culminated in a marriage and two children. On top of the typical stresses of parenting, money, and work, there were Aaron's untended wounds of depression, addiction, and family trauma. Then, when burning lesions appeared on his body overnight, Eleanor was as baffled as his doctors. There seemed to be no obvious diagnosis, let alone a cure.

What The Reviewers Say

MOLLY SPRAYREGEN,
The Associated Press
Henderson’s writing will pull at your every heart string. She is raw, emotional, vulnerable. Through it all, she allows herself to be wholly human.
Jessica Wakeman,
BookPage
... incredible.
Elizabeth Chang,
Washington Post
A relentlessly visceral memoir.
Kathleen McCallister,
Library Journal
Henderson brings a novelist’s sensibility to this memoir of her 20-year marriage and the chronic illness of her husband Aaron; she weaves their history with measured prose and emotion in alternating strands.