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The Perfect Other: A Memoir of My Sister

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55/100

Critics

88/100

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Author:

Kyleigh Leddy

Publisher:

Harper

Date:

March 15, 2022

In this debut memoir, a young woman studying social work explores her relationship with her older sister, whose battle with schizophrenia transformed her from a charming role model into a volatile and tragic figure whose death continues to haunt Leddy and her family.

What The Reviewers Say

Kathleen Gerard,
Shelf Awareness
... a chilling, moving memoir.
Kathy Sexton,
Booklist
Leddy’s explorations into schizophrenia and its relationship to traumatic brain injury enrich the story and beg comparisons to Susan Cahalan’s Brain on Fire (2012), which she references. Not easy reading but exceptionally thoughtful and insightful, this memoir is a testament to Kait, Leddy, and their mother..

Publishers Weekly
Gutting in its intensity, Leddy’s narrative grapples with the unearned guilt she still carries regarding Kait’s difficult life, but it also celebrates the 'exuberantly bright' light her 'confident and hilarious' sister once shined upon the people around her. By refusing to allow this to become a story of utter despair, Leddy offers a humanist portrait of the nuances of loving someone with a mental illness. This one isn’t easy, but it’s well worth the effort..

Kirkus
Threading commentary on traumatic brain injury and its relationship to psychiatric disorders throughout, Leddy seeks courageously to 'break the stigma' and silence that still surround schizophrenia and similar disorders while paying tribute to the woman whose life so profoundly transformed her own. A moving and deeply felt memoir about family and mental illness..