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A Girlhood: Letter to My Transgender Daughter

Next in the queue

60

/100

I Index Overall Rating

Readers

77/100

Critics

44/100

Scholars

N/A

Author:

Carolyn Hays

Publisher:

Blair

Date:

September 13, 2022

A parent’s love letter to a daughter who has always known exactly who she is.

What The Reviewers Say

Jenny Maattala,
The Southern Review of Books
Hays appeals not only to the readers’ morals, but also uses scientific data, religious practices, and historical facts to educate the reader on what it means to be transgender.
Jake Nevins,
The New York Times Book Review
Availing itself of this form, Hays’s book is at once powerfully intimate and frustratingly pamphlet-like, particularly when the narration becomes impersonal and omniscient, peppered with random references to nonconformity, gender and otherwise, from throughout history.
Stephanie Burt,
The Boston Globe
... a jittery, energetic, wise, practical, hopeful book for parents of transgender kids, especially girls, especially those who say who they are when they’re young. Trans readers might find it pedestrian or predictable; cisgender parents of trans kids need it now.
Candace Smith,
Booklist
... poignant.