The I Index

All of This: A Memoir of Death and Desire

Maybe someday

28

/100

I Index Overall Rating

Readers

39/100

Critics

17/100

Scholars

N/A

Author:

Rebecca Woolf

Publisher:

HarperOne

Date:

August 16, 2022

A "grief-and-relief" memoir tackling all the things we're too afraid to say about death, marriage, sex, and how the death of a husband can lead to a rebirth.

What The Reviewers Say

Nell Beram,
Shelf Awareness
... unapologetic and unbridled.
Rebecca Steinitz,
The Boston Globe
Woolf loves her symbols — and she’s good at them.
Anna Spydell,
BookPage
... eschews any such flattering postmortem revisions in favor of the messy, freeing truth.
Jennifer Moore,
Library Journal
From the opening salvo, Woolf makes it clear to readers that this is not going to be a traditional grief memoir. Rather, it is a forthright portrait of one marriage, and the things that came after. From digging desperately through her jewelry drawer in search of the wedding ring she took off years ago to having frank discussions about her dating and sexuality with her four children after their father dies, Woolf takes readers on a journey that is nothing if not unforgettable. Is it comfortable or comforting? No, but it is brutally honest and empowering tale of a woman who emerges from her marriage and her husband’s final illness like a butterfly from a chrysalis—not neatly or painlessly, but nonetheless beautiful to behold.