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Don’t Call Me Home: A Memoir

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Readers

32/100

Critics

91/100

Scholars

N/A

Author:

Alexandra Auder

Publisher:

Viking

Date:

May 2, 2023

Alexandra Auder's life began at the Chelsea Hotel—New York City's infamous bohemian hangout—when her mother, Viva, a longtime resident of the hotel and one of Andy Warhol's superstars, went into labor in the lobby. These first moments of Alexandra's life, documented by her filmmaker father, Michel Auder, portended the whirlwind childhood and teen years that she would go on to have. At the center of it all is Viva: a glamorous, larger-than-life woman with mercurial moods, who brings Alexandra with her on the road from gig to gig, splitting time between a home in Connecticut and Alexandra's father's loft in 1980s Tribeca, then moving back again to the Chelsea Hotel and spending summers with Viva's upper-middle-class, conservative, hyperpatriarchal family of origin.

What The Reviewers Say

Jessica Ferri,
The Washington Post
The past isn’t past, of course, and Auder does good work of describing the world from a child’s point of view.
Ann Levin,
Associated Press
It takes guts and a sense of humor to kick off your debut memoir with an insult from Andy Warhol.
Freda Love Smith,
Booklist
Auder’s frustration comes through loud and clear, but so does a deep and abiding love, and she manages to reflect on her chaotic and unconventional upbringing with a refreshing lack of prejudice and judgment. In many ways, it seems, her mother raised her right..

Kirkus
Vibrant.