From The Guardianâs Georgina Lawton, a moving examination of how racial identity is constructedâthrough the authorâs own journey grappling with secrets and stereotypes, having been raised by white parents with no explanation as to why she looked black.
What The Reviewers Say
Deborah Mason,
BookPage
... eloquent.
Lucy Knight,
The Times (UK)
... a jaw-dropping story, told deftly, interspersing personal experience with wider research and insight into the ways racial identity has an impact on our lives. Occasionally I found the tone over-casual (the words 'hella' and 'obvs' are particularly jarring), but it doesn’t make this any less of a gripping, thought-provoking book..
Bliss Broyard,
The New York Times Book Review
Lawton’s discussion of racial passing, transracial adoption, mixed-race identity and the health implications of being misidentified are freshly fascinating. She is a particularly astute observer of the psychological dislocation caused by growing up mixed race in a white family who never acknowledged her racial identity, and she writes beautifully about questions of identity and belonging, so central to each of us in finding our particular place in the world. When it comes to reconciling her newly embraced Black consciousness with the racial attitudes of her white family and friends, however, Lawton sidesteps the possibility of hurting them by saying only 'we’ve come a long way.'.
Laura Chanoux,
Booklist
With writing that at times reads casually, like a personal blog, Lawton’s examination of identity and family is a compelling account that will resonate with many readers..