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We Came, We Saw, We Left: A Family Gap Year

Maybe someday

45

/100

I Index Overall Rating

Readers

54/100

Critics

37/100

Scholars

N/A

Author:

Charles Wheelan

Publisher:

W. W. Norton & Company

Date:

January 26, 2021

The author tells the story of how his family did what others dream of: they took a year off to travel the world.

What The Reviewers Say

Amity Gaige,
The New York Times Book Review
Aside from the requisite cultural misunderstandings, skin rashes and homicidal drivers, Wheelan wisely focuses his book on the way the family navigates meltdowns, hurt feelings and all the high-stakes transactions of life on the go. I loved this family. Wheelan is a lucid and likable storyteller, and his antic family dialogues are spot-on, but he is not — and does not pretend to be — a poet of place.
John Young,
The Post- Gazette
The whys behind this nearly-year-long trip are interesting but not especially noteworthy or requiring extensive commentary. The places visited turn out to be fairly arbitrary, dictated by various family members’ interests and opportunities to visit friends or stay in accommodations arranged by them. The people involved make this journey notable, particularly Wheelan’s three children, all brought to life on the page through the sort of telling, and often embarrassing, details it takes a parent to reveal.
Carson Vaughan,
NPR
... a swift and refreshing escape during these isolated, isolating times. It is also a disarming repudiation of those patronizing and "powerful social forces" that prevent too many families from similar adventures, and a waggish examination of nuclear (pun intended) family dynamics.

The Star Tribune
A sprightly account of an unusual family vacation: a nine-month-long Marco Polo-ish odyssey often visiting nontraditional tourist destinations.