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Bottom of the pile

4

/100

I Index Overall Rating

Readers

7/100

Critics

2/100

Scholars

N/A

Author:

Molly Roden Winter

Publisher:

Doubleday

Date:

January 16, 2024

Molly Roden Winter was a mom of two young children in Park Slope, Brooklyn, with a husband, Stewart, who often worked late. One night when Stewart missed the kids' bedtime, again, she stormed out of the house to clear her head. At impromptu drinks with a friend, she met Matt, an unbelievably hot younger man. When Molly told her husband that Matt had asked her out, she was surprised that he encouraged her to accept. So begins Molly's unexpected open marriage, and with it a life-changing journey of self-discovery. Molly and Stewart, who also begins to see other people, set ground rules to start: Don't date an ex. Don't date someone you work with. Don't go to anyone's house. And above all, don't fall in love. Spoiler alert: They end up breaking most of their rules, even the most important one.

What The Reviewers Say

Kimberley Harrington,
The Washington Post
Bound to be passed furtively from friend to friend and gobbled up after the kids go to bed. It will make for an electrifying book club pick.
Jennifer Wilson,
The New Yorker
Roden Winter is writing in unstinting detail about the mechanics of her marriage’s transition from monogamous to open (some sex on the side) to fully polyamorous (in which couples are allowed to have full-fledged concurrent relationships). She holds nothing back, even when she should.
Tyler Austin Harper,
The Atlantic
An unsparing account of a polyamorous life.
Katy Duperry,
Library Journal
Winter shares her and her husband’s deeply personal, candid story about deciding to make their relationship non-monogamous.